In most primitive cultures, there’s a ritual of earning adulthood, like a vision quest, or you go out hunting by yourself, or maybe a young girl makes a quilt. But in our society, we’ve lost a lot of that. Sure there’s the bar mitzvah and the bat mitzvah and the quinceañera, but for most people, they want to feel like they’ve earned their way into being an adult. That’s why you see a lot of extreme sports. Sometimes that’s why people join gangs. So if you’re a young person and you feel like you just want to go slay that dragon, find something healthy to do. Find a sport, find a mentor, find a class, find something that’s really hard with someone who cares about you and use that as your ritual for earning adulthood so that you don’t pick something like a terrible job or a terrible relationship as, for example, I did, hope that helps.